Thirty years ago I converted a guy and then dumped him for a returned missionary from an established LDS family. How do you really feel about that. About two years into our marriage, I got sick of waiting in bed for him to come read scriptures with me. Build a life of your own but, make them your priority. I know after residency he would choose a flexible job which would allow for the most family time. His fellow resident is married and seems like a good guy, I want to believe my bf will change. But, I am a 3rd year medical student and my fiance is a 2nd year medical student. I was spiritually prepared to receive the answer that I sought. That was literally over years ago. Mormon girls are the best, and you are pretty lucky.
Breaking up with someone solely because of religion is something people condemn alot on this sub when its a Mormon breaking it off with a non Mormon, but if floats both ways. It sounds like she's already considered marrying you and raising children in the church even with you being out of the church. We talked during the break and saw each other a few times before he moved, but he finally ended things a month into the break telling me "he loves me, but is no longer in love with me" and "doesn't think he can regain the passion. There is no question that God loves all of His children, and that obviously includes non-members. Talk about issues with Jehovah's Witnesses etc. The bottom line is that you are setting yourself up for difficult times ahead.
Like many Docotors wives, Our husbands have a demanding career. When we started dating, he was in his fellowship. It is very painful, considering that we have an 8-year old son. If your doctor husband says "impossible", ignore him. Life will chuck all sorts of bouncers at you. You are a good person. Not in endless discussions of temple marriage, not ever. And as much as I love my boyfriend with my whole heart, I can see now that sadly maybe I might have to reconsider a life married to him. Some great ideas include going on a hike or a walk, having a picnic outside or going to museum. When she had a strict 6: If there was a disagreement, one person was supposed to submit to the other, consult a rulebook that covered almost everything, or turn to a church leader to decide for them.
This is the type of doctrine that Joseph rejected and so have the leaders of the church. Get her to explain what she believes, and how it might differ from her church. While we have a good marriage but he has no idea how lonely I am for my him. He was patient and supportive, promising to continue acting like a TBM for as long as I wanted our baby is 4, so that likely would have been at least 14 years. Count yourself lucky that your boyfriend is able to even consider going to parties with you even if you don't ultimately make it to them. However, for me, there have been some perks too. We long to have a connection that you don't have time for.